Father Wedding Speech

November 17th, 2009 Leave a comment Go to comments

Humourous Wedding Toasts-Or Serious Only!

One of the proprieties of a wedding speech is that sometimes they are funny. Of course, it doesn’t all need to be funny, but Humorous Wedding Speeches are a great crowd pleaser, and it will make you look good, as long as the jokes aren’t mean or offensive.

When I prepared my father wedding speech, I wanted to be funny and humorous, but at the same time respectful, because the groom would have his own speech right after me, so I wanted the father wedding toast done in such a way to introduce him in a warm manner, so he would be relaxed. I have to say, that Jeff, my son-in-law, was a little nervous about giving the groom wedding speech, so he needed a little encouragement. I tried to be careful not to insult him, or his family in any way, but instead making him feel good by giving a huge groom’s wedding toast and a big warm welcome to the family.

Good Humor and What is It’s Secret
 In any wedding toast, the bride and her groom should always be the center of attention, and I tried to keep it that way, after all they were the main attraction and it is their day. When I used humor in my speech, I did it to keep the guests focused and attentive, and to make sure they kept listening for the next punch line.

So the best way of using this tactic from what I have learned, is to combine your regular speech with a few good jokes. To keep everyone relaxed, but focused, say emotional things, then add a little humor. It was my daughter’s wedding day, so of course I was a little emotional and nervous, but this really helped me as well as it did with the audience!

These hints and tips about father wedding speeches will get you on the right foot, but for even a better idea, it’s a good thing if you try to use a few wedding speech examples.

Wedding Toast, to the Bridesmaids
We admire them for their beauty, respect them for their intelligence, adore them for their virtues, and love them because we can’t help it.

Wedding Toast, to the Bride and Groom
Marriage: A community consisting of a master, a mistress, and two slaves – making in all, two.

Wedding Toast, to the Bride and Groom
May the roof above you never fall in and may you both never fall out.

Wedding Toast, to the Bride and Groom
To the lamp of love – may it burn brightest in the darkest hours and never flicker in the winds of trial.

Wedding Toast, to the Bride
May she share everything with her husband, including the housework.

Wedding Toast, to the Bride and Groom
May ‘for better or worse’ be far better than worse.

Wedding Toast, From the Groom to the Bride
She knows all about me and loves me just the same.

Wedding Toast, to the Bride and Groom
The man or woman you really love will never grow old to you. Through the wrinkles of time, through the bowed frame of years, You will always see the dear face and feel The warm heart union of your eternal love.

 

Another great father speech tip from my experience is to be informal and interact with the audience. Remember to relax, this isn’t a lecture, It’s a toast! The father should feel like he is talking to old friends, which is largely the case, and be relaxed, friendly and well, funny.

Any public speaker would tell you that making a good eye contact with your audience, and not fixing anyone will be a great way to keep the audience interest. What helped me to improve my funny wedding toast before the big day, was to practice this technique with some of our friends.

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