Father Wedding Speech

Is it wrong of me to be mad about things in my husbands past?

We just got married. He had been married before and they’re wedding was by far better and more exspensive then ours. He didn’t want to have another big wedding so we kept it small and intimate. I know all about his previous wedding, seen the pictures and video. He gave his ex diamond braclet, earings and necklace as a gift on the day with flowers delivered to where she was staying. I feel hurt because i didn’t even get a card or any of those nice presents. I didnt exspect them, but when his family started asking what i got as a gift to show his love, i had to answer nothing. I got some pretty weird looks, and i was left feeling hurt all day. At his previous wedding he made a lovely speech referring to his lovely wife and how special and beautifull she is,but on our wedding he did not say anything about me or make a toast to me. Is it wrong of me to be upset about it? And how do let my husband now how i feel…should i say i’m upset?

Yes you have the right to feel upset.
Yes you should talk to him, but nicely.
He may have valid reasons for his actions.
Who are these people???? What right have they to judge you?? why do you care?
I aint saying she a gold digger…

The feelings that you have are valid even if you are in the wrong or if you have misinterpreted the situation, you still feel hurt.

If you bury those emotions now, they will come back and get you later. I think you should tell him what happened as objectively as you can and explain that it made you feel hurt. Then you must listen to his response and give him the chance to put it right.

However, this should inform him not to be so stingy and to pay you some attention and give reasurance (dont say that though, wait for his actions).

Perhaps he didnt do the same for your wedding because he didnt want a replay of an event that didnt end happily for him. He may not have wanted to create a similar wedding memory as he would then associate yours with the previous and could feel distressed by this. It would have been very hard for a man to be so creative that he could think of an alternative style of wedding ceremony.

You would have been perfectly happy if those people hadnt told you as you said that you didnt expect all of that rubbish! So its not him who upset you but them. Maybe these people were not malicious, but just lack simple tact and diplomacy.

Men are so bad at discussing things and the big day would be completely the wrong time. Maybe he really wasnt aware of these foot in mouth sufferers.

Some people are very shallow and need a lot of bling to feel loved. If you have a true love relationship, then you have something that can evoke jeaslousy in many people.

Was his ex was a gold digger? and would she have accepted him without being bought off? You are not her, which could be why he has chosen to be with you. Its sounds like the effort put into his last wedding may have been to passify a demanding, volitile person (he might have been afraid of her!)

So she has a load of jewelry from Argos which she has probably pawed off, the card, recycled and the flowers are dead. You have him, which do you prefer?

The money that he didnt spend on tacky bangles can now be used to create happy, true love memories together.

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